Live with wisdom - enjoy life!

I once asked a friend who had crossed 75 and was gently walking toward 80 what changes he felt within himself. He shared something simple, yet profound: After loving my parents, siblings, spouse, children, and friends for decades, I have finally learned to love myself too. I no longer feel like Atlas carrying the world on my shoulders. Life goes on, with or without my constant control. I have stopped bargaining with small vendors. A little extra from me may mean something meaningful to them. I tip generously, knowing that a small gesture from me can bring dignity and encouragement to someone working hard. I no longer interrupt elders by saying, “You’ve already told that story.” Their stories are their treasures, and retelling them keeps their memories alive. I don’t rush to correct everyone. Peace matters more than being right. I give compliments freely. Kind words cost nothing, yet they enrich both the giver and the receiver. I don’t worry about wrinkles on my clothes or imperfections in appearance. Who I am matters more than how I look. I quietly distance myself from those who don’t value me. My worth doesn’t depend on their recognition. I stay calm when others compete unfairly. I’m not running their race; I’m walking my own path. I no longer hide my emotions. They are proof that I am alive and human. I choose relationships over ego. Ego creates distance; love creates belonging. I try to live each day fully, knowing tomorrow is never promised. Most importantly, I do what brings me peace and happiness. My happiness is my responsibility, and I choose it every day. Then he left me with a question that stayed with me: Why wait until 70 or 80 to understand this? Why not live with this wisdom now, at any age?